The Adventure of a Lifetime

When Frank and I married in 2007, our wedding invitation asked loved ones to celebrate with us as we embarked upon “the adventure of a lifetime.”  At that moment, I had no idea that many of our adventures would be complicated by the challenge of “accessing” facilities that do not readily accommodate Frank’s particular form of disability.  Along the way, we have been confounded by the lack of awareness regarding the myriad shapes and forms of disabilities.  Still, most people are simply ignorant of the challenges that exist in a given venue despite a prominently displayed “handicap accessible” placard.   Certainly I was clueless prior to my status as traveling companion - beyond the frustrations posed by being "height challenged," I never gave much thought to the adaptations required by those whose physical forms do not fit into the one-size-fits-all design of hotel bathrooms or theater seating.  

I do not presume to understand the vast variety of challenges faced by every differently-abled person.  The goal of this blog, therefore, is not to berate any particular establishment or individual for operating within their own ignorance, so much as it is to generate awareness and perhaps a needed “ah-ha!” moment for those in the design, travel, and entertainment industries.

My observations are informed by my studies in gerontology, an interest in design for "aging in place," and my emotional responses to the level of distress or satisfaction experienced by Frank in a given venue.  He may choose to weigh in on some topics.  I hope to also include the reflections of other people who can speak to additional aspects of the issue of accessibility in travel.

Thanks for joining me on this journey...